Not much adoption news right now from our little neck of the woods. Dualing options are very much on the table, and we have been exploring specific programs; many are so different from Ethiopia it's hard to wrap our minds around . Actually, the dualing process itself is really difficult to wrap our minds around, but we are getting there. Some awesome options exist (China special needs in particular), although, of course, adoption is a business and an expensive one, so we may stick it out with Ethiopia and see what happens. At the same time, we've waited to see what would happen for a really long time, and adoption isn't our first rodeo in trying to build a family. What to do? Not sure, yet. We are weighing options, talking to different programs, re-evaluating what we can handle. Lists, lists and more lists.
In the meantime, we are prepping for the holidays. I looooove Thanksgiving and Christmas--the lights, the music, the food, the family, the community. And I dream of the day when I won't avoid the mall after Thanksgiving because children dressed up to see Santa is just....hard. Maybe I'm the only one that feels that way, but maybe not. But we are working on enjoying the moment (and finishing Christmas shopping in advance). And hoping against hope that this is our second-to-last holiday season without a baby. I'm realistic enough at this point to know it won't be our last.
So I leave you with this picture. Yup, another day of diving in the Puget Sound....wait! What is that on the ground, you ask?
Yup, snow. We are officially Pacific Northwestern divers. Feel free to call me Dr. Awesome-Badass amongst yourselves. Time for a hot buttered rum (minus rum, so is that just a "hot buttered?"), a Snuggy and a movie.
Scuba diving does not really sound fun to me, and scuba diving in the snow sounds really not fun. Interested to see what you guys decide to do. I'm glad you have options. We are rethinking things too. I'll PM you.
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Thinking of you. You know from our blog that we changed directions this year and will be moving to China SN next year once hubby turns 30. If there is any info I can share, let me know.
ReplyDeleteWha? I haven't been out of town for 24 hrs and it snows??? Very badass, and just thinking of it makes me cold...!
ReplyDeleteYou are definitely not alone in dreading some parts of the holiday season. I honestly thought last year was our last, at least our last without knowing who our child was (thinking we'd surely, SURELY have a referral by now).
ReplyDeleteWe have friends who left the Ethiopia program and are now about 2 months away from bringing home a daughter through the China SN program. Here is their blog, if it's of any help: http://planetrh.blogspot.com/
OK so today we took our holiday pictures and we were in stupid scarves and hats and it was 80+ degrees and we were all sweating and it was ridiculous! I will be surprised if we got one good one out of 200 taken. Urf. I am so jealous of the snow!
ReplyDeleteBUT, I am so sad to hear about the continued limbo. I hurt for you. The wait is so hard. The decisions are so hard. The money aspect is just one part of it, the emotional investment is neverending. Hugs to you both.
Not alone, at all! Thanks for stopping by the blog. We're happy to exchange emails, and highly recommend the China Adopt Talk online forum and the China Adoption Online site, both in our links section. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteI'm so impressed with your scuba diving prowess. : ) Praying for your adoption and for wisdom and truth. As you know, we changed to the Congo in June and our time frame has already been extended a couple of times. It just sucks. praying for you.
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